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Making Soup With the First Baby Boomer

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I like to make soup with the tired vegetables from my refrigerator’s vegetable drawers. You know: the limp carrots, the saggy celery. Sometimes I think that those mature vegetables, rescued from the fridge, have more flavor — just like aged people. We’ve been around, soaking up flavor. Just like me.

I’m possibly the first Baby Boomer. Sure, there were 3 million other Boomers born in my birth year of 1946. And a lot of us followed. By 1964 (the end of the generation) we Baby Boomers were 76 million strong.

Though victory in Europe came first, victory over Japan — which ended the war — was announced on August 14, 1945 and declared official on August 15th. VJ Day! Finally, the long terrible war was over.

Am I the first?

Born at the end of May 1946, I’ve counted on my fingers, and my birth came nine months after VJ Day of August 15th. So I could be the first.

I would ask my parents about the timing of my conception but they’ve passed on. So I must make the claim without any supporting documentation. I envision my conception as happening during a night of grateful and joyful celebration. War’s end. Finally. Our soldiers would come home. Let life start again. The end of shortages, scarcity. The end of rationing. I could have been butter.

Peace had come. A hopeful time. Is that why I’m such a pacifist? Maybe so. I do know that I hate war, violence, destructive explosions and hatred of all kinds. I cover my eyes during violent scenes in movies.

I just want a “Peaceable Kingdom” to reign over our fragile planet. Is that too much to ask? It appears so. But there remains love and kindness that pops up unexpectedly. I subscribe to all the “good news” posts and stories I can find. These reflections of our love for one another and other living beings lift my spirit and support my sometimes-flagging optimism.

With a new president soon to take office, I wonder what tomorrow brings? The Chinese have a curse, I hear, that goes something like this: “May you live in interesting times.” Whatever our new administration proposes, I suspect, will be ‘interesting.’ How interesting? We wait to see.

Ever hopeful, I wish for positive news, actions, and kindness. But if it doesn’t come, then maybe we can be ever more kind to one another. We’re going to need one another.

There’s a Hopi Indian prophecy we can keep in mind: “When Grandmothers speak, the Earth will be healed.” We may be entering a time when we who have soaked up more flavor need to speak.

Let’s begin. Let’s talk to one another.


Patty Frank

I hope you’re finding joy one meatball at a time! Let me hear your comments.

4 thoughts on “Making Soup With the First Baby Boomer”

  1. Millie Johnson Sparks

    Hi, Patti.

    I love this post. Today I have met many and awe-inspiring strangers. Sometimes, we have to slow down and really listen to people to give them the love they need and that we need from them. We only have so many moments to our lives. We should all listen to the wisdom of our elders and make them count. Join Carteret Writers if you have not already. They are a great network. And join us at the History Museum for open mic night the third Friday of the month from 4 to 6 pm.

    Love you,
    Millie

    1. You’re so right…let’s turn strangers into friends! And cherish our Elders…looking forward to seeing you soon. best, Patty

  2. How lovely to read your words! I love the Boomers and jeez the things you had to endure in your generation.
    You’ve seen peace and war. You were on the scene when real music was being made, when real music was new.
    5 stars to your blog and the picture of you with the meatballs!

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